Summer is filled with long days and warm nights, free from schoolwork obligations. It is no wonder “summer lovin’ happened so fast.” But with summer break comes a three-month separation between some couples, especially those who met on campus and have to part ways to different states during the summer. When it comes, they are no longer a mere three-minute walk away from each other and lose the option of daily summer escapades with night-time dates. As such, summer may not be an easy road to navigate, but there are a plenty of ways to make it work.
Stay in contact
Being a few states away physically does not mean the distance has to pull you two apart mentally. It is important to establish and maintain an emotional connection as often as you can. According to the HuffPost, it does not have to be a long, in-depth conversation. Let your significant other know your schedules and be curious about his or her schedule as well. It is helpful to know when the other person is busy and when he or she is free, so that you can drop a text or make a call at the right time. This is especially essential when both are living in different time zones. Frequent communication like this, no matter how mundane it is, will show that each of you cares enough to put time and effort into the relationship.
Trust each other and be honest
Trust in a relationship is vital, regardless of distance. Be faithful. However, if you do make a mistake, Modernlovelongdistance.com states that it is especially important to be honest and tell your partner the truth. Do not try to deal with things all by yourself. Be open and honest with each other, but the best thing to do is avoiding those kinds of situations to begin with.
Invest in alone time and other important relationships
You are alone but you are not lonely, unless you choose to feel like it. You should not let your world revolve around your significant other, and being apart is the perfect opportunity to regroup. According to Lifehack.org, you will suffer more if you focus all your free time and energy on your long-distance love. You will be happier and healthier in life if you have a strong network of friends and family beyond your partner. Additionally, spending time alone can be the best chance to improve and strengthen yourself.
Do things simultaneously
According to Refinery29, doing the same things at the same time can make the long distance seem smaller and more bridgeable. You can play an online game together, or watch a movie or TV show simultaneously. You will feel closer together and you will bond at the same time if you would do things simultaneously.
