Being an introvert can mean many things. You may not be able to make friends easily or it may take you longer to transition from high school to this new form of adulthood. However, do not let being shy deter you from having the best years of your life. You will never know what you could have experienced if you hold yourself back.
Keep in touch with close friends
Talking to people who know you can always be a way to find comfort in stressful situations. Even though you may not be able to see your old friends after high school, it is always great to stay in contact with them. It can even make you feel less alone. However, you don’t want your close friends to act as a shield to keep you from making new friends. Even though it may be scary, you should make an effort to find new friends to have new experiences with.
Don’t inhibit yourself from making friends
Making friends can be hard, especially now in our new normal, but do not be afraid to make them. Having friends who are also navigating the same turbulent times of new adulthood can be comforting and may even help you feel more understood. You can start making friends by simply finding just one person in each of your classes to talk to, even if it is just about current assignments.
Always make time for yourself
Making time for yourself is always important. Although you are navigating the new experience of college, you will need to take time to decompress. Always take time in between assignments to watch a movie or read a book. Even if you are attending class from the comfort of your own home, it is important to take time away from your studies so as to not overwhelm yourself. Unplugging for even half an hour can make a big difference to your day.
Get out of your comfort zone
College is one of the places when you can finally take the time to find yourself and who you are and what you want out of life. Do not write things off because you’ve never done them before. Join clubs, learn how to play a new instrument, just be involved. You never know. Maybe, you can find your best friends while doing something you could have never imagined yourself doing a month ago.
